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Getting 'sexy' online
Rose Ng'ang'a , Nairobi: Mar 30 2009
Made Popular Mar 30 2009
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Getting 'sexy' online

I was surprised the other day when I went into my usual cyber cafe in town to browse only to get my favourite machine was occupied.
I was forced to go round the cafe looking for a free machine, its this time I realized how ’sexy’ things were in the room.

At least 3 people in a row of 10 were on sex sites. What was amazing is that most of those who were on these sites were not teenagers but old men and women who I thought would have serious issues to do on the Internet than chatting ‘dirty’ and watching porn.

I do not mean that whatever they were doing is not ‘important’ but to me this was being done at the wrong place and the wrong time, they might argue that they paid for the services but this is not right.

I might be ignorant but I never thought cyber sex was deeply rooted in Kenya as it is, after this incident I talked to a cyber assistant who made it clear to me that 60 percent of their clients would spend most of their time on sex sites and watching pornography online. Theirs is business and more profit so what to do?

Cyber sex with no doubts is on the rise with the increase of networking sites some of which are solely on sex.

Its my sincere wish and prayer that our children will not lose the sense of enhancing their knowledge in the right way and indulge in such evil sites which are so addictive and destructive. I call them evil since they are devilish to me and I would not judge anyone who would deem them educative wrongly, it all depends with someones view.

We expect the cost of Internet to go down soon as the SEACOM fiber optic is here with us, so Kenyans we have been complaining of expensive Internet so let’s make good use of the Internet.

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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
Never be surprised by natures drive to form the perfect genes
We humans are the most sexual animal to ever see earth ,we have mated with any combination of us humans from 1 to a 100 ,we used any combination of plant or inanimate object you can think of to use in sex,we mated with dead bodies,we think we mated with aliens and ghosts,open wounds,and with many animals- so a computer is no big deal to nature
The drive to pass on our genes symbolically or real has no boundaries But as a dizzy emotional animal we are- we live in a fairy tale world
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
Wayne thanks for the comment.
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Usha
Chennai, India
This is necessarily one of the ills of technology.
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
Sure Usha.
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Wonda L
Earth, Canada
Rose
Hope all is well -AND sorry for bringing in reality that humans hide
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
Wayne
you dont have to be sorry, we are here to exchange ideas and learn from each other.
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Zaheerul Hassan
Lahore, Pakistan
ur absolutly right,lets pray that new generation should use this facility in right direction and in usefull ways. we must educate our children about the good and bad of internet and then let them to decide.
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
Hassan
Sure we cannot survive without the internet.
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Sachin Kumar
shimla, India
Who decides the standards for good and bad of something? We our self. The acts which were treated bad earlier are no more bad.Surely we should go for positive aspects of technology but negatives are bound to be there.Let the society transform steadily.We should preserve our culture but culture is not a static thing . It has changed and will under go a change further.
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Jordan
Rochester, United States
@ Sachin

Well, sachin negatives are bound to be there with every positive aspects however, it's more a case of human psyche than of society or anything else. what say? it is the inherent evil in the human nature that instigates them to take a bad route not the technology...something that provoked Eve to eat the fruit of knowledge! isn't it?
(Global Perspectives)
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Sachin Kumar
shimla, India
Yes, it’s the inherent evil in human nature that instigates them to take a bad rout.
Why there exists the inherent evil in human? What is the criteria for something to be termed as an evil?
Why seeing porn sites on internet is always an evil? Doesn’t it symbolizes the liberating society?
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
Sachim
I hope u noted in my story i noted that i would not judge anyone wrongly for having a different opinion on Porn and internet since it all depends with a person’s definition/view of evil. What’s evil to me might be sacred to you and vise versa.
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Sachin Kumar
shimla, India
Rose
I do agree to you. There are no defined parameters of good and bad.What is good here may be bad there. Standards are fixed according to the social economic situation of residents of a particular place.Moreover as I said earlier let the society transform naturally.We can not be the self declared custodians of culture.
(Global Perspectives)
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Rose Ng'ang'a
Nairobi, Kenya
@ James
Yah i would imagine no one would be comfortable sitting next to a couple kissing and getting down to ’seriuos’ issues in a public vehicle yet its their right to do that, they would be doing this at the wrong place though its the right thing, that is a fair analysis of the whole scenario that i went through.
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James
Kampala, Uganda
yes Rose you are right? i endorse the personal freedom to the level at which it does not hurt others interests. no harm in enjoying the life but not on the others peril...
(Global Perspectives)
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G emeraldsandash.blogs..
Canberra, Australia
Something relevant to this.. I originally wrote it elsewhere.


Perhaps it is a reflection on the proliferation of sexual imagery online (of which the above is hardly an example, to my mind) that people are creating and seeking the artificially intimate to compensate for their lack of a real experience of intimacy in their lives.
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G emeraldsandash.blogs..
Canberra, Australia
oops - disregard bracketed statement...
(Global Perspectives)
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