
Over 1.5 million Kenyan men are battered by their wives. It has been revealed that many men suffer domestic abuse from their spouses in silence. A new research shows that domestic violence against men has substantially shot up. Normally it is widely held that women are always the victims but today women are also perpetrators of domestic abuse and violence.
Notably women will share with their friends in case they are battered by their husbands but men in most occasions opt to keep quiet hence leaving the abuse by women against men in the dark. As usual there has to be a specific place that takes toll, Central province leads in physical abuse by women against men, at 72 percent. Nairobi is second at 60 percent.
The abuse includes injuries and emotional abuse such as battering, verbal abuse, denial of conjugal rights and being forced to do house chores. Others are even raped and inflicted with bodily injuries besides being insulted. More than 60 per cent of the women interviewed in 40 districts nationally admitted that they had physically abused their husbands.
According to the survey, most of those affected were newly weds and those in old marriages. Their research found that men had little say on issues concerning conjugal rights because women were the ones who determined when and how they should make love.
The abuse includes injuries and emotional abuse such as battering, verbal abuse, denial of conjugal rights and being forced to do house chores. Others are even raped and inflicted with bodily injuries besides being insulted.
I hope you are not exaggerating on this one. And if not, then these are not men.
Okey that aside in my own opinion so many men are running away from responsibilities they say it is the 21 century men and women are equal and imagine women are just out smarting them. You noted i cited the Central Province as the most affected gannering 72 percent, a good percent of men here are cabbages their work is to drink cheap brews and sell house properties when their wives are out searching for something to eat. By the way some of them end up killing their husbands.
A man on the other hand has to be ....erm....excited into the state....or do penises really have a mind of their own? And just how big are these women? Inquiring minds want to know!
Yes, a woman can rape a man without the willingness of the man. Erection need not be always willing. It can be attained by physical manipulation and tickling the sense nerves. Rape can also happen with the man being given drugs to make him unconscious.
”So you are saying that penises REALLY do have a mind of their own”————–
The sensory nerves are connected to the brain and the mind and when tickled activate. Call it a ’Mind of its own’ if you wish.
This is very true. The corporates and media are funding the stupid feminists to brainwash the society into believing that women are discriminated and men are evil. because the women’s empowerment and liberation concepts divide families, break them into different portions and each of those families becomes a financial unit by itself. Thereby, if a family of 4 gets divided into 4 parts, they would need 4 refrigerators, 4 T.V. sets 4 sofas, 4 cars, 4 bikes, 4 apartments etc. Emotional needs are not met in such cases and they tend to get depression and other psychological problems. The Psychiatrists, psychologists, pharma companies all benefit from this female aggression. Besides, Lawyers and judges get their moolah as more and more divorces, 498A, Dv and alimony cases are filed. The economy runs this way. This is the reason why corporates, media and rich people are funding the feminists.
Men have failed??? isn’t that the reason why we have machines, computers, Internet and what not for comfort? isn’t that same failure of men is being used by women? Let women stop using these things.
If you noted i mentioned some not all of them and lemmie be specific that we appreciate and happy to part of what men have invented, including what you quoted in your comment, and i personally respect all the men that deserve my respect, okey without them we cannot be but on the other hand there is that percentage that lets the male fraternity down nad this is the group that the women are taking advantage of.
”okey without them we cannot be but on the other hand there is that percentage that lets the male fraternity down nad this is the group that the women are taking advantage of.”———————-
This is true. Many men are the worst enemies of men’s rights. They do it mostly to appease the women and get sexual favours.
Well said.I am happy that you are aware of the evil designs of the feminists!
Men have failed the test of time??? Are you saying men are redundant? Then, please don’t use anything that men have created. Stop using the Internet, the phone, T.V. etc. Why do you want to use something that is created by a redundant animal?
”Most men commit suicide because of financial failures, or being mixed up with criminal elements like illegal gambling, drugs or other scandals. The fact that they are married is only a coincidence”——————————————This is a typical feminist propaganda to pass the buck and put the blame on men for the crimes committed by women. There is a clear link between marriage and suicide in the case of men. The suicide rate of married men is 3 times higher than married women. On the other hand, suicide rate of singe men is twice that of single women. This clearly shows and rebuts the feminist theory that financial reasons are the cause of most suicides of men. The suicide rate of married men being 3 times higher is not a coincidence but a very clear indication that women indulge in domestic violence.
”women are proving to be a strong gender against all odds”———————–How do you say this? Just because we have machines today for women to work on par with men, just because the danger from nature has become almost zero, and just because society has advanced so much that its protective shield exists everywhere, does that imply that women are strong against all odds? Place a woman away from the society and you will know.
”irresponsibility and unfaithfulness” the modern woman will not sit back and spectate.
”What makes them to be beaten is their own folly.”
”well when you tell women that God only favors men and that women are only property, what do you expect them to act like?”——————————thats a misinterpretation by feminists and communists to destroy all tradition and God and religion. No religion says this.
If you beat a dog long enough, it will eventually turn around and bite you. You are the ones getting bit, thank your misogynistic forefathers for it.
Don’t they have history books where you come from?
Maybe next time battering occurs I should be seing headlines of 'Men and children' . They seem to be the helpless lot!
The problem is not with the men. The problem is with the society which has liberated the women and not ready to liberate the men. Hence, the man’s ego does not allow him to discuss freely about the DV that he faces. Society would laugh at him for not being man-enough to face his wife. The day men are liberated, this scenario would change. If you attend any of the Save Indian Family meetings, you would find men discussing quite openly about these issues because they know they would not be humiliated.
”Save Indian Family by destroying Indian woman, I guess that is a fair trade off. ”————————-Unlike feminists who want destruction of family, men and tradition, besides marriage, Save Indian Family movement is a positive movement with the single agenda of protecting the family and fighting against feminists laws. The question of destruction of Indian women does not even arise as 1.3 Lakh women are victims of feminist laws in India in the last 5 years alone! Strangely, feminists don’t consider these sisters and mothers of male relatives as women. The feminists fight only for wives.
You talk about feminists destroying ...family, men and tradition, you never even acknowledge that women have an identity apart from that.
Your save the family is about destroying women’s souls, crushing the life out of them, stripping them of their human rights, just so that you can have your way.
Women do not have to be held hostage by outdated traditions just to have a family. Men just have control issues and they are willing to give up any of their control over women.
Not really! Abuse by men is noticable and obvious. Abuse by women is hidden and forcefully denied. There is a term called ’Brutal assault’. There is another called ’intelligent assault’. Women indulge in the latter 99% of the time, manipulating men as they want them to be. Men are more into brutal assault which is seen and taken cognisance of.
the issue is to end domestic violence not competition or seek sympathy.
The example I usually use is.... Answer only yes or no, Do you ’still’ beat your kids? Either way you answer that question, you will be made to look bad even if you have never hit your kids.
I noted the your positive approach since this will mean that even the wife batterers will have to stop.
Nobody is trying to gain sympathy for men as men never get it anyway. I want to know how you believe that this statistics is exaggerated. Is it because you were never told about it earlier? Or, is it because you are finding it difficult to accept the level? Yes, I am with you when you say DV should end.
the funniest and at the same time the most pity full thing would be to see two so called men complaining about woman
Look out you macho men i seen a spider under your chair
This is the typical femininazi way of distracting men from their liberation movement. When men complain, feminists call them non-masculine men. Yet, they want equality to prevail and want women to be liberated. When women are liberated from traditional roles and concepts, why cannot they liberate the men from their traditional roles and concepts? Who is a man and who is not a man? A man who is battered by a woman is not a man?? Then the woman who is battering the man is also not a woman.
in some places women liberation era has just started and looks like in other parts of the globe men liberation era needs to be supported now.
domestic abuse, is not acceptable.
we are looking for equality here and not dominance on one another.
Men need 5000 years of battering before the babies have a right to complain–here is a grown up depends for the infants
Brutal assault always gets much more attention than intelligent assault. Women are well-known for the latter and for committing brutal assault through the back door [By hiring killers and instigating other men to do it on their behalf apart from misusing laws]. Your reply is a delusion of sorts and you need to grow up!
When two people will never see things the same the best approach is to be polite and realize not all see life the same
Now have a good day and i expect you to tell me the same –Wayne
When two people will never see things the same the best approach is to be polite and realize not all see life the same
Now have a good day and i expect you to tell me the same –Wayne
Thanks for an eye-opening article.These happenings are indicative of dark future.These happenings are a tight slap on the face of feminists who always present women as victims and not as oppressors.
Anyway, I am happy that are men are beginning to realize that menace caused by the feminists need to be tackled in a more co-ordinated way.
Yes,the world never fails to to take note of the brutal behaviour of men. However, the same world turns a blind eye to the most inhuman behaviour of women and ironically comes to hail them as icons of refined virtues.
It’s time to realize that if women are given opportunity they have the capacity to be more lethal than ”nuclear bomb”!!
Absolutely!! One of the reasons for not identifying brutal behaviour of women is the hangover of tradition and the confusion between tradition and modernity.
Thanks too for dropping by and initiating a seriuos debate, thanks again.
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Okey that aside in my own opinion so many men are running away from responsibilities they say it is the 21 century men and women are equal and imagine women are just out smarting them. You noted i cited the Central Province as the most affected gannering 72 percent, a good percent of men here are cabbages their work is to drink cheap brews and sell house properties when their wives are out searching for something to eat. By the way some of them end up killing their husbands.
Maybe next time battering occurs I should be seing headlines of 'Men and children' . They seem to be the helpless lot!
”irresponsibility and unfaithfulness” the modern woman will not sit back and spectate.
”What makes them to be beaten is their own folly.”
If you noted i mentioned some not all of them and lemmie be specific that we appreciate and happy to part of what men have invented, including what you quoted in your comment, and i personally respect all the men that deserve my respect, okey without them we cannot be but on the other hand there is that percentage that lets the male fraternity down nad this is the group that the women are taking advantage of.
I noted the your positive approach since this will mean that even the wife batterers will have to stop.
Thanks too for dropping by and initiating a seriuos debate, thanks again.
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The abuse includes injuries and emotional abuse such as battering, verbal abuse, denial of conjugal rights and being forced to do house chores. Others are even raped and inflicted with bodily injuries besides being insulted.
I hope you are not exaggerating on this one. And if not, then these are not men.
the issue is to end domestic violence not competition or seek sympathy.
This is very true. The corporates and media are funding the stupid feminists to brainwash the society into believing that women are discriminated and men are evil. because the women’s empowerment and liberation concepts divide families, break them into different portions and each of those families becomes a financial unit by itself. Thereby, if a family of 4 gets divided into 4 parts, they would need 4 refrigerators, 4 T.V. sets 4 sofas, 4 cars, 4 bikes, 4 apartments etc. Emotional needs are not met in such cases and they tend to get depression and other psychological problems. The Psychiatrists, psychologists, pharma companies all benefit from this female aggression. Besides, Lawyers and judges get their moolah as more and more divorces, 498A, Dv and alimony cases are filed. The economy runs this way. This is the reason why corporates, media and rich people are funding the feminists.
Men have failed??? isn’t that the reason why we have machines, computers, Internet and what not for comfort? isn’t that same failure of men is being used by women? Let women stop using these things.
Men have failed the test of time??? Are you saying men are redundant? Then, please don’t use anything that men have created. Stop using the Internet, the phone, T.V. etc. Why do you want to use something that is created by a redundant animal?
the funniest and at the same time the most pity full thing would be to see two so called men complaining about woman
Look out you macho men i seen a spider under your chair
in some places women liberation era has just started and looks like in other parts of the globe men liberation era needs to be supported now.
domestic abuse, is not acceptable.
we are looking for equality here and not dominance on one another.
The example I usually use is.... Answer only yes or no, Do you ’still’ beat your kids? Either way you answer that question, you will be made to look bad even if you have never hit your kids.
A man on the other hand has to be ....erm....excited into the state....or do penises really have a mind of their own? And just how big are these women? Inquiring minds want to know!
Men need 5000 years of battering before the babies have a right to complain–here is a grown up depends for the infants
Yes, a woman can rape a man without the willingness of the man. Erection need not be always willing. It can be attained by physical manipulation and tickling the sense nerves. Rape can also happen with the man being given drugs to make him unconscious.
”okey without them we cannot be but on the other hand there is that percentage that lets the male fraternity down nad this is the group that the women are taking advantage of.”———————-
This is true. Many men are the worst enemies of men’s rights. They do it mostly to appease the women and get sexual favours.
”Most men commit suicide because of financial failures, or being mixed up with criminal elements like illegal gambling, drugs or other scandals. The fact that they are married is only a coincidence”——————————————This is a typical feminist propaganda to pass the buck and put the blame on men for the crimes committed by women. There is a clear link between marriage and suicide in the case of men. The suicide rate of married men is 3 times higher than married women. On the other hand, suicide rate of singe men is twice that of single women. This clearly shows and rebuts the feminist theory that financial reasons are the cause of most suicides of men. The suicide rate of married men being 3 times higher is not a coincidence but a very clear indication that women indulge in domestic violence.
”women are proving to be a strong gender against all odds”———————–How do you say this? Just because we have machines today for women to work on par with men, just because the danger from nature has become almost zero, and just because society has advanced so much that its protective shield exists everywhere, does that imply that women are strong against all odds? Place a woman away from the society and you will know.
The problem is not with the men. The problem is with the society which has liberated the women and not ready to liberate the men. Hence, the man’s ego does not allow him to discuss freely about the DV that he faces. Society would laugh at him for not being man-enough to face his wife. The day men are liberated, this scenario would change. If you attend any of the Save Indian Family meetings, you would find men discussing quite openly about these issues because they know they would not be humiliated.
Not really! Abuse by men is noticable and obvious. Abuse by women is hidden and forcefully denied. There is a term called ’Brutal assault’. There is another called ’intelligent assault’. Women indulge in the latter 99% of the time, manipulating men as they want them to be. Men are more into brutal assault which is seen and taken cognisance of.
Nobody is trying to gain sympathy for men as men never get it anyway. I want to know how you believe that this statistics is exaggerated. Is it because you were never told about it earlier? Or, is it because you are finding it difficult to accept the level? Yes, I am with you when you say DV should end.
This is the typical femininazi way of distracting men from their liberation movement. When men complain, feminists call them non-masculine men. Yet, they want equality to prevail and want women to be liberated. When women are liberated from traditional roles and concepts, why cannot they liberate the men from their traditional roles and concepts? Who is a man and who is not a man? A man who is battered by a woman is not a man?? Then the woman who is battering the man is also not a woman.
Brutal assault always gets much more attention than intelligent assault. Women are well-known for the latter and for committing brutal assault through the back door [By hiring killers and instigating other men to do it on their behalf apart from misusing laws]. Your reply is a delusion of sorts and you need to grow up!
When two people will never see things the same the best approach is to be polite and realize not all see life the same
Now have a good day and i expect you to tell me the same –Wayne
When two people will never see things the same the best approach is to be polite and realize not all see life the same
Now have a good day and i expect you to tell me the same –Wayne
Well said.I am happy that you are aware of the evil designs of the feminists!
Thanks for an eye-opening article.These happenings are indicative of dark future.These happenings are a tight slap on the face of feminists who always present women as victims and not as oppressors.
Anyway, I am happy that are men are beginning to realize that menace caused by the feminists need to be tackled in a more co-ordinated way.
Yes,the world never fails to to take note of the brutal behaviour of men. However, the same world turns a blind eye to the most inhuman behaviour of women and ironically comes to hail them as icons of refined virtues.
It’s time to realize that if women are given opportunity they have the capacity to be more lethal than ”nuclear bomb”!!
”So you are saying that penises REALLY do have a mind of their own”————–
The sensory nerves are connected to the brain and the mind and when tickled activate. Call it a ’Mind of its own’ if you wish.
”well when you tell women that God only favors men and that women are only property, what do you expect them to act like?”——————————thats a misinterpretation by feminists and communists to destroy all tradition and God and religion. No religion says this.
”Save Indian Family by destroying Indian woman, I guess that is a fair trade off. ”————————-Unlike feminists who want destruction of family, men and tradition, besides marriage, Save Indian Family movement is a positive movement with the single agenda of protecting the family and fighting against feminists laws. The question of destruction of Indian women does not even arise as 1.3 Lakh women are victims of feminist laws in India in the last 5 years alone! Strangely, feminists don’t consider these sisters and mothers of male relatives as women. The feminists fight only for wives.
Absolutely!! One of the reasons for not identifying brutal behaviour of women is the hangover of tradition and the confusion between tradition and modernity.
If you beat a dog long enough, it will eventually turn around and bite you. You are the ones getting bit, thank your misogynistic forefathers for it.
Don’t they have history books where you come from?
You talk about feminists destroying ...family, men and tradition, you never even acknowledge that women have an identity apart from that.
Your save the family is about destroying women’s souls, crushing the life out of them, stripping them of their human rights, just so that you can have your way.
Women do not have to be held hostage by outdated traditions just to have a family. Men just have control issues and they are willing to give up any of their control over women.
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